How technology has degraded the way we communicate

No-one wants to hear this.
No-one wants to put their smartphones or tablets down long enough to give their distracted brains a respite. But, if you do, then you might want to wonder why we gave up so easily and became so enslaved by technology. Why are we so hopelessly dependent on communicating in such a sterile, soulless way? Are we so overwhelmed by our own smugness, our own cleverness that we have forgotten what makes us real and human?

I don't understand why the majority of people have embraced smartphone and tablet technology to the extent where they have become hopelessly preoccupied with the technological means of communication at the expense of everything else. Is this symptomatic of a culture that has become dumber by letting machines do their thinking for them while convincing themselves that they're clever because the technology they're using appears sophisticated?

These are all valid questions and I have been caught up in this way of thinking myself. It's ok. I'm clever. I work in technology. I am validated!

Only I know that validation comes from within, it is not defined by external states or circumstances. I don't need to convince myself of this anymore. I know it to be true.

Something I have been very concerned about is the way in which the internet appears to have changed my memory and ability to recall things. Pre-internet we relied on books to furnish us with knowledge or passed knowledge amongst our peers and family from traditional media sources and word of mouth. It has been argued that since the internet has become such a pervasive and accepted part of our everyday life, there is less of a need to recall specific pieces of information as it can be readily pulled from the vast reservoir of information that is the world wide web. The result of this is that our brains can become lazy as we convince ourselves that we don't need to recall certain facts anymore. I guess this is the area I am most concerned about as could it also have a knock on effect and mean that we don't recall important things that influence our daily lives as well?

Taking this a step further, will technology make us more lazy in our general communication as well? Already there are signs that this is happening as quality friend and family time spent chatting is replaced by x number of people sat around a table in silence staring at an LED slab. To me this is a pretty disturbing trend and yet, more disturbing, is how socially acceptable it seems to have become. Why aren't more people challenging it? Well, maybe they are starting to in cultural and artistic circles as the following example illustrates:

http://www.artthesystem.com/2013/12/after-i-saw-this-i-put-down-my-phone.html

In the meantime, I believe it would be a lot healthier if we challenged the rampant advancements in communication technology in terms of its effects on how we communicate because, if we don't, then I'm concerned as to where we might end up.